I had a dream where I was talking to my mother and we were having a good conversation on life and what was happening. In real life, my little brother whose about to be 13 years old got into some trouble at his old private school and ended up getting expelled. He now attends a rough and underfunded up public school but will soon be able to apply for selective enrollment schools and advanced programs. However, right now he needs some mentorship but he is growing. In this dream, my mother runs into this guy's mother named Brendan. Brendan has a mother named Brenda in real life and Brendan is someone I used to talk to and I went on a date with before attending college. Brendan was a gentleman and he was kind to me in real life but abruptly things went dry once I started my first semester in college and this time last year we stopped speaking to one another. I ended up blocking him because I hated that he wasn't responsive enough and the conversations felt dry but I feel like I still have feelings for this person being that he was someone I only dated for a short period fresh out of high school and before turning 19. Brendan appeared in this dream we talked and rekindled for a little and he took my brother for a male retreat and one on one in a log cabin in the Dells in Wisconsin ( which is not far from my actual college). Matthew ended up liking Brendan and my mother ended up liking him as well as Brenda (his mother). There was a woman that had been posted on his Instagram previous to me but Brendan's mother assured me that I had nothing to worry about.
This dream carries various elements that symbolize different aspects of your current reality and emotions.
The conversation with your mother represents a desire for guidance and support amid the challenges your family is facing, particularly with your younger brother's change of schools. It suggests that you are seeking wisdom and understanding from your mother on how to navigate these difficulties.
The appearance of Brendan in your dream could represent unresolved feelings or unfinished business from the past. The fact that he takes your brother for a male retreat could symbolize a potential role model or mentor figure for him during this transitional period. It also indicates a desire for mentorship and guidance for yourself, as Brendan's positive qualities are appealing to both you and your mother.
The presence of Brenda, Brendan's mother, reassures you of his intentions and loyalty. This could symbolize a need for reassurance and trust in your relationships, particularly in regards to Brendan. The woman that had been posted on his Instagram may represent any insecurities or doubts you still have about his commitment.
Overall, this dream might be reflecting your longing for support, mentorship, and connection during this challenging time. It also suggests that you may still have unresolved feelings for Brendan, and you may need to explore and address these emotions for personal growth and clarity.