I was in an area akin to my current locale. In the dream, I encountered a man much older than me. I knew this man from my waking life. He had encouraged me to drink spirits in a bar near his workplace on 2 occasions. However, in the dream, he took the phone I had rented from my mother. I could not lose that phone, so I begged for him to take something else instead. I even got desperate and threatened that I knew where he lived and would 100% get the police involved. He relented, giving me back the phone, and took my pure black cap in its place. After the incident, I believe I bought 2 blunts of marijuana on my way back home. I did not smoke them. At home, I still leave with my mother and younger female cousin. After getting back home, I hid them for later but based on my mother's remarks, I sensed that she was aware of my activities. She is greatly opposed to my drug abuse. We did not talk and the dream came to a close soon after.
In this dream, the man you encounter represents someone from your waking life who has influenced you in some way. The fact that he encouraged you to drink spirits in a bar suggests that he may have influenced you to engage in behavior that may not align with your own values or desires. His taking the phone you rented from your mother symbolizes a loss of communication or control in your life. However, your strong desire to retrieve the phone shows your determination to regain that control.
Begging him to take something else instead of the phone reveals your desperation to hold onto your sense of connection and communication, even at the cost of sacrificing something else. The pure black cap he takes in exchange may represent a personal symbol or object that holds significance to you, and losing it suggests a loss of identity or sense of self.
The mention of buying blunts of marijuana indicates a potential desire for escapism, relaxation, or an attempt to cope with stress or tension in your waking life. The fact that you choose not to smoke them in the dream suggests a level of self-awareness or an internal struggle with engaging in such activities.
At home, living with your mother and younger female cousin, you sense your mother's disapproval and opposition to your activities. This may reflect a conflict between your desire for personal freedom and self-expression, and your awareness of your family's expectations and values. The lack of communication between you and your mother in the dream could signify a disconnect or strained relationship surrounding these issues.
Overall, this dream may be highlighting your internal struggle between conforming to societal or familial expectations and desires for personal freedom and self-expression. It could serve as a reminder to reflect on your own values and aspirations, and to find a balance that allows you to assert yourself while maintaining healthy relationships with others.