Dreaming of being fat generally symbolizes feelings of insecurity, low self-esteem, or a lack of self-acceptance. It can also indicate a fear of judgment or societal pressures related to body image. This dream may reflect concerns about your physical appearance or your ability to fit in socially. Alternatively, it could represent an overindulgence or a tendency to excess in certain areas of your life, such as overeating or overspending. Consider the context and emotions in the dream to gain a more accurate understanding of its meaning.
![I had a dream that my ex husband and I were back together but it seemed like it wasn't us being together in the past, but in the now as I looked like I do now and had the same emotional intelligence I now have than I did when I was very young and married to him. I remember we were at a park and he was shocked about how much I had changed physically. I asked if he was shocked about my daughter (whom he had helped raise from newborn to toddler) and how big she is now at age 12. He didn't seem to comment much on that but things felt less chaotic than our normal/previous relationship. I think it was my mindset in the dream, knowing I've learned more about myself and my prefrontal cortex is fully developed. Second part of the dream, I was no longer with him and was in a very nice futuristic building. I ended up getting off the elevator and meeting an entire family who invited me to dinner. I then realized I must of been getting married to someone in this family. They were Indian (east) and we were at an Indian restaurant and I remember I didn't know how to eat my food and somehow I had eggs that I just cracked raw onto my meal as I had no clue what to do and I pretended to eat and enjoy the meal. While I was doing this, I was sat next to two sisters of my fiancé and they looked identical. I remember one talking about already having a baby and the other wanting one so bad. I stayed on topic but wanted to give them an interesting fact and first asked if they were identical (I assumed they were because they looked exactly alike), alas they were not and they both turned around to show that one of them had blonde hair and the other a chocolate brunette and that they were fraternal but looked alike (like Mary Kate & Ashley). I told them that they both had a high chance of having fraternal twins and we all left the restaurant. The next part of my dream showed us on a lower floor and it felt like an earthquake had hit us. Right when it did, the large tank of water we were looking into, showed a human diver dressed as a mermaid dive into the tank and it showed the water was vibrating from the Shockwaves of the quake. Later I found out this was a possibly real mermaid, but then everything around me changed, as is what happens often in my dreams and the tank was now a screen and I was huddled up with my brothers and my oldest little brother's friend and his old roommate who got kicked out and low key broke my heart, and this part of the dream, we were preparing a wedding for the mermaid but were playing a weird version of sims on the screen to set up her alter and it looked like it was to be a very dark or Gothic wedding. This entire time, I was being handed goldfish and different snacks and his roommate was very friendly and nice to me, as he was in real life. I made a passing joke about me being fat and no one rejected it or Said that I wasn't fat. I saw my baby brother (who is 23, but still a baby to me) fall fast asleep while laying on this "pallet" sort of thing with us while we were huddled. My other little brother then says doesn't this remind you of [I don't remember his exact words but he was reminiscing about when we were kids and would feel comfy and safe].](https://flask-aws-demo.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/uploads/69ae5270-76c1-457b-90a2-b42d2f1c0fbe.png)